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"You're so gay"
minidoxigirli wrote
at 1:42 AM, Sunday March 11, 2007 EST
I am so tired of hearing people insult others on here by calling them gay. It's unnecessary and disgusting behavior that should be stopped. C'mon, people, aren't we a little more creative than that? I'm not saying we should ban the word; that would not accomplish anything. I think we should band together and decide that, as a group, homophobic insults will not be tolerated. I've been told that it's only a phrase, and that it's just used, but that doesn't excuse anything.

Any thoughts?

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Semagon wrote
at 7:05 PM, Sunday March 11, 2007 EDT
No, it wouldn't necessarily be easy - Ryan would have a queue of profiles to check, then he has to ban (ok, that should be a one-click thing), but then the person will just register a new account, and people who get off on doing such things will be more determined to come back again and again to cause more havoc, making more work.

The only long term solutions may be profile poster banning, which may or may not put a strain on the db, or "profile moderators." Mods can take a long time to set up (many initial mods are sycophants who will actually be terrible, or they end up cracking up with power after a little while).

I'm just being pessimistic because I've seen enough forums struggle with these issues. SA, one of the most popular forums on the net, went through years of shit with this (seriously, mods went nuts!).

Ok, just thinking before I hit post - maybe Ryan can do simple account settings, where you can put it to only accept comments from friends, or accept all. Secondly, a delete comment link could be placed right in the main page, instead of having to go into "edit profile."

Oh, and as I think more, in order to do effective banning, Ryan would need to (and he maybe should anyhow) set up an email verification system. Right now its only purpose is as a user id. A troll could just keep making new accounts all night like [email protected], [email protected], etc. By forcing a simple email reply system, you'd limit the ability for trolls to re-register.
minidoxigirli wrote
at 7:59 PM, Sunday March 11, 2007 EDT
XicaDaSilva- I do not agree with you on banning people. If we ban people for slurs, then we can ban people for swearing, and it's a breath of fresh air to find a site that allows that.

accountx3- obviously someone who calls someone else gay on here is not giving them a compliment on their personality, so the original dictionary definition doesn't apply here.

When we make admins the moral police, it becomes a slippery slope. When we discourage that kind of behavior through social means, it empowers the community.

I also don't care that The Plough wrote "what a gay" on my profile. I'm leaving it there because I think it says more about him than me.

I hope this is making more sense to people. There's more than two extremes: banning and acceptance. There's middle ground, too.
nc_ wrote
at 12:46 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
lot of fags in this room. fuzzy, i bet youve never had touched even a "lesser" gender. perhaps its time to invest in a female or male robot for yourself ;)
XicaDaSilva wrote
at 1:13 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
Related old thread:
<a href="http://aplayr.com/kdice/kdice/forum/topics/racially%20sensitive%20insults%20in%20chat../">Racially sensitive insults in chat</a>
Ryan has a couple of posts too.
fuzzycat wrote
at 2:21 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
wow, nc_, you have the sissy fight skills of an 8-year old. This people always counter with the same you say. You say: your are stupid. Answer: You are stupid too! You say: People calling others "gay" in the internet, haven't had sex with male or femal. You say: You haven't had sex too.

Now thats original *rolleyes*
fuzzycat wrote
at 2:22 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
XicaDaSilva, xica by all love. But this thread is *not* about racism, nor has it ever been mentioned before you.
XicaDaSilva wrote
at 3:10 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
#fuzzycat
The name for the banning idea should be racial/homophobic slur. Anyway, I consider these more serious than the cursing and trash takling (which I don't encourage either).
DealOrNoDeal wrote
at 4:31 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
@minidoxigirli
quote "If we ban people for slurs, then we can ban people for swearing, and it's a breath of fresh air to find a site that allows that."

enjoy the fresh air then ...
Gi0rgi0s wrote
at 10:49 AM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
minidoxigirli, it is obvious that the people of this forum are not mature enough to handle such a serious issue.
z0mg wrote
at 1:36 PM, Monday March 12, 2007 EDT
sissy fight skills? i never participated in one of those, perhaps because im not a bitch like you. you have yet to even make a valid argument. maybe if you whined and complained more, someone would take you seriously...oh wait. no
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